Showing posts with label arranged marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label arranged marriage. Show all posts

Saturday, September 11, 2021

water wives

On this piece of a very parched Earth 

I walk ten thousand leaden steps 

under the burning merciless orb, 

We call the life-giving Sun 

dangling on hips a pot full of water 

while I carry two on my stiff head 

to provide succour to my thirsty hearth  

where the heavily pregnant first wife 

Of my middle aged husband 

bake millet chapatis for the master of the house, 

as I wash away the dirt, sweat and blood 

to ready myself for the nightly chores 

befitting a dutiful new wife. 

-Neha Bansal




 




Monday, February 11, 2013

Arranged Marriage: the old fashioned way








He went there with his five aunts
and three brothers-in-law.
The banarasi-clad aunts spoke a lot,
the co-brothers a little
and the groom not at all.
He sat almost broodingly,
the branch manager of a sarkari bank,
with your average Indian moustaches.
Kachoris  with tangy tamarind chutney
from back-street Natthu halwai served,
whose laurels  along  with bhua’s 
cross-stitched table cloth 
shamelessly ascribed to the bride.
The aunts nodded approval when she
brought forth the tea tray,
with bowed head and bashful eyes,
 tutored by her omniscient mausi.
Gulping down the elaichi tea
and eyeing her surreptitiously,
the groom quickly noticed her
besan-cured complexion;
her long snaky braid, pliant
 yet promisingly passionate.
No questions were ever asked
about bride’s aspirations.
Topic of dowry hushed up but
Traditions were to be respected.
Leave taking now, the groom afforded
a lingering glance on his bride-to-be,
definitely not lost on chuckling aunts
and the beaming parents of the bride.