Tuesday, August 10, 2021

Menstruation

When my best friend bled 

for the first time,

her mother hugged her 

and thanked Almighty 

as her beloved daughter 

finally reached the threshold 

of her womanhood. 

She cooed away her 

menstrual cramps 

and fussed greatly over 

all her tantrums.

She treated us all 

to pizzas and shakes 

that made the coming of age 

so very special. 

But I couldn't help remembering 

the cold silence of my mother, 

not a fortnight ago,

when she  forbade me to

enter the household temple

or touch the lime pickle 

I so much loved. 


- Neha Bansal





2 comments:

  1. It is nice... The comparison between the two mothers and the way they reacted to the same situations, shows the difference in the way they were brought up.

    But this needs to change as some things or traditions are just too old and outdated to be followed.

    The mother should make her daughter feel comfortable about it. She should tell her that it is a positive change in her body so that she does not feel as if she has done something wrong and she is being punished for some crime which she hasn't even committed.

    Chhavi

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