When my best friend bled
for the first time,
her mother hugged her
and thanked Almighty
as her beloved daughter
finally reached the threshold
of her womanhood.
She cooed away her
menstrual cramps
and fussed greatly over
all her tantrums.
She treated us all
to pizzas and shakes
that made the coming of age
so very special.
But I couldn't help remembering
the cold silence of my mother,
not a fortnight ago,
when she forbade me to
enter the household temple
or touch the lime pickle
I so much loved.
- Neha Bansal
It is nice... The comparison between the two mothers and the way they reacted to the same situations, shows the difference in the way they were brought up.
ReplyDeleteBut this needs to change as some things or traditions are just too old and outdated to be followed.
The mother should make her daughter feel comfortable about it. She should tell her that it is a positive change in her body so that she does not feel as if she has done something wrong and she is being punished for some crime which she hasn't even committed.
Chhavi
Yes I totally agree....
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